Real mail, for the people you'd miss.
dearfriends collects your friends' addresses, remembers their birthdays, and nudges you to send a card once in a while.
no app needed — just a link
Sam Beaumont
Portland, OR · added their address
You mail the card
labels + addresses exported
How it works
Three small habits.
Share one link.
Post it anywhere. Friends add their address in under a minute — no account needed.
Remember the dates.
Birthdays and big days, with a nudge a week early.
Send something real.
Export labels and letters, then you print, pen, and stamp. Digital contacts get email from the app.
Your people
A private list of everyone you'd miss.
Just the people who matter — where they live, and the dates that deserve a real note in the mail.
My people
private address bookHana Okafor
Brooklyn, NY
Sam Beaumont
Portland, OR
Dad
Tucson, AZ
Mira Väänänen
Helsinki, FI
add someone — or send your link
Nudges, not notifications
One quiet email when it's time.
A heads-up before birthdays and a gentle note when someone hasn't heard from you in a while. No badges, no streaks.
Hana's birthday — next Friday
Sunday morning · dearfriends
Mail by Tuesday to give it time to arrive. Start with a card, a note, or a few honest lines.
A quieter kind of social
Friendship doesn't need another feed.
Just a place to remember the people, dates, and small gestures that matter.
Someone's mailbox is waiting.
Setting up your list takes about four minutes.
Made for keeping in touch, one letter at a time.